Acrimonious Separation: The Impact on Children
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Author
Amárach Research
Date
2026
Type
Report
Language
en
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Abstract
Acrimonious parental separation and inter-parental conflict are increasingly recognized as significant challenges affecting children’s wellbeing and development. Drawing on a nationally representative survey of 654 parents, in-depth interviews, and staff perspectives, this report highlights the widespread nature of these issues in Ireland.
Nearly half of children supported by Barnardos’ targeted services have experienced parental separation, and a quarter have been exposed to inter-parental conflict. Survey results reveal that 51% of separated parents reported severe communication difficulties at the time of separation, with 80% acknowledging negative effects on their children. The impacts on children are multifaceted, including reduced parental attention, increased anxiety, insecurity, withdrawal, and risk-taking behaviors. The distinction between destructive and constructive conflict is emphasized, with unresolved, hostile conflict—rather than separation itself—identified as the primary driver of negative outcomes. Financial stress and poverty often exacerbate these effects, particularly when families cannot establish separate households. Evidence-based interventions, such as structured parenting support and education, have demonstrated effectiveness in reducing harm, improving parent-child relationships, and decreasing conflict.
The report calls for greater awareness, expanded universal and targeted support services, and policy enhancements to prioritize children’s needs and reduce the incidence and impact of acrimonious separation. Coordinated action is urgently needed to protect children from the lasting trauma associated with parental conflict and separation, ensuring their right to a safe and nurturing environment.
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Report
Citation
Amárach Research. (2026). Acrimonious Separation: The Impact on Children. https://hdl.handle.net/20.500.13085/1398
Publisher
Barnardos